Monday, November 30

Not what you usually hear scouts say...

Jordan and Nathan are in a scouts group (part of a larger organization) that meets at the Catholic Middle/High School where Andrew and Cameron go to school. Yesterday Jordan was telling me about the game they played where his age group (10-11 year olds) was split into 2 groups. One group went out on the grounds to "hide" while the other group waited inside. Then the "seekers" went out to find the other group, while the hiding group tried to sneak back to the building without being seen. If the seeking group saw the other group before they could sneak back to the building, then they were to yell "What the F***" and both groups would race back to the building - the first group with all it's members back wins that round. Can't believe they used that for calling out the other team! And they played this game a bunch of times.

It's always surprised us how much the "F-word" and "S-word" are used here, especially when they're used by younger kids. My kids hear these words on the playground all the time, even by kindergarden-aged kids! I know when I was a kid we'd say "caca" for the s-word, it wasn't as bad as the s-word and was used more regularly. But we didn't use it all the time. The words don't have as much meaning to the kids here, but I know most teachers at the school dole out punishments if they hear a kid using one of the English swear words.

So, Jordan thought it was pretty funny they got to yell what they got to yell for the game, though he told me he didn't say it - he nudged whoever he was with if he saw the other group and the other kid would yell "WTF". From what I know of Jordan, I believe him. I even told him he can use the phrase everyone else if using if that's the game, but he needs to know it's not license to use the word anywhere else since the words have a different meaning for us English speakers. Of course, as the boys grow up they'll all have their time experimenting with certain words. It's natural. But, hopefully our years here won't create a bunch of "potty mouths"!

Friday, November 20

Krant Artikel

Below is an English version of an article which ran in the sports section of a regional newspaper, Krant van West-Vlaanderen.

In the Clarke family, which will return to Oregon next year, Andrew, Cameron and Jordan play with Olbak-Bissigem

"We will miss Belgium"

Kortrijk - Kevin Clarke works for Barco and came to Belgium 2 years ago for a 3 year period with his wife Stephanie and four children Andrew, Cameron, Jordan and Nathan. Adapting in Europe was a big challenge because no one spoke dutch. Athletics, skateboarding, snowboarding, skiing, soccer with FC Marke and, most of all, basketball with Olbak-Bissigem fill most weekends of this sports-oriented American family.
"I was offered the chance to come for 3 years to work in Belgian Research and Development of the Medical Imaging Division of Barco," Kevin starts the story. "We work hard on the optimalization of the displays of computers in the medical area. With cancer diagnosis, for example, it's very important to see the smallest details."
"We saw Europe as a great opportunity for the children to learn other languages and to better learn about the world. They'll develop skills for learning, face challenges and have opportunities to travel," says mama Stephanie. "We've visited not only neighboring countries around Belgium, but we've also visited Italy, Greece and more."

Just Like Chinese
"Andrew (15), Cameron (13), Jordan (11) and Nathan (8) had it tough at first. The 2 oldest took longer to learn the language because their fellow students could speak to them in English. The younger two only heard dutch and learned the language more quickly, " mama Stephanie.
Andrew found learning dutch "pretty hard", mostly because he started in the first year of junior high. "I had to start with 3rd year french and I learned it through dutch. A tutor helped me get through the first months, but it took a year before I started to be comfortable with it," says Andrew.
"With help from my teacher I understood most things by the Christmas vacation and I could help myself," remembers Cameron, who attends Don Boscocollege with his older brother Andrew.
The youngest two go to the elementary school.
Jordan: "After 3 months the dutch was easier, it's <<> Chinese. It took a while before I could say the "eu" and "uu" vowel sounds. I couldn't hear the difference.
Nathan: "Dutch wasn't too difficult. Before the February vacation I got used to it, thanks to my teacher. After a year and a half I was pretty fluent."

One or more sports
In the US the four boys enjoyed doing a lot of sports.
Andrew: "I wasn't used to playing basketball through the whole year. And, in the US we would make plays, here it's mostly cut and run. In America I also played baseball."
Cameron: "2 years before we came to Belgium I didn't play basketball. I did gymnastics and played lacrosse, a sport that is popular in the US. Basketball is a cool sport, but it's hard work. I like playing only one sport through the year instead of two or three. You can get better faster. I also like to run, like my dad. I might join the sports club in Marke. The 400 and 800 meters are good lengths, I think."
Jordan: "Basketball here doesn't seem that different than in the US, but here kids play the same sport throughout the year. In the states we can play a different sport each four months. It was soccer in the fall, basketball in the winter and baseball in the spring. I miss getting to play different sports."
Nathan: I play soccer in Marke, but I want to try American football when we go back to Oregon.

Cirque du Soleil
Because of all the busy sports activities of Andrew, Cameron, nathan and Jordan, the weekends are very full.
"The weekend days often begin pretty early," nodded father Kevin, who is also athletic and took up skateboarding when he was 40. "We take the boys all over and when there are free times sometimes I go with Cameron to skateboard in the skate bowl on the Leie."
Papa Kevin: "Cameron let us know that he would be happy to return to Europe after he's done with school. In the summer vacation we'll go back to the States. Then it will be a new adjustment for the kids. He dreams of being an acrobat in the Cirque du Soleil and has a natural talent for circus techniques, like juggling and unicycle riding. I also have a unicycle and I'm learning to ride it."
One thing is certain: the Clarke family of Rodenburg in Marke isn't bored for a moment. Surely not when the grandparents came for a visit.
"It was fun to have the grandparents here. They didn't stay long, but it was good for them to see their grandchildren doing their activities."

Naar Ice Mountain
Andrew: "The coolest things in Belgium are fries, chocolate, my friends, steak with mushroom sauce and going to see the Cirque du Soleil in Brussels last year. That was cool. The coolest time we've had was a long weekend with our grandparents, in the forests in Wallonia and going to a city with a castle."
Cameron: "Belgium is cool and there are fewer rules than back in Oregon, like at swimming pools. Here you do what you want at the pool, no one cares. The coolest thing was when my cousin Travis came for a visit and I showed him all about our life here. Just like Andrew I'm looking forward to seeing my friends in America, but I would be okay with staying in Belgium. My favorite places in Belgium are Paradisio, the coast and Ice Mountain, the indoor ski slope in Komen."
Mama Stephanie: Where we live in America there are mountains so we ski and snowboard every winter. We miss that here, which is why Ice Mountain is such a good place for them."
Jordan: "I love it in Belgim but I miss my friends in Oregon and our house and other things. Luckily there's the internt and computers to stay in contact."
Nathan: "My opinion of Belgian foods: I like taartjes. My favorite places are Planckendael and Ice Mountain, but I'm looking forward to going back to Oregon. I want to come back here sometime to come visit my friends."
Father Kevin: "We want to thank everyone for the support and especially our neighbors who are always available to help."

Wednesday, November 18

Visitors

One of the fun things about living in Europe is visits from friends and family. This fall we have 3 sets of visitors.

The first visitor, in late September, was my friend Renée. She and I have been friends since we were in jr high and having her here was great! It's fun to play tour guide around our town and the unique towns in our area. And having someone to show around is a great excuse to go to all my favorite cities, restaurants and cafés. Renée and I spent time in Kortrijk and Marke (where we live) and also in Brugge (2 different days, it's such a special town) and Ieper. But the HIGHLIGHT of her visit was a 4-day girls weekend in Paris! We caught the fast train to Paris (with less than 2 minutes to spare before the wheels started rolling!) and made it to Gare du Nord, checked into our hotel and were walking up to Montmartre by 11:00 Thursday morning. (First pic is us having (expensive) coffee, tea and croissants on the main corner in Montmartre.)

Between then and Sunday night at 8, we walked all over, went in a few places, had lunch at small cafés, went to the top of the Eiffel Tower, out to Verseille, and hung out. Some highlights of the weekend were our champagne toast and half hour hanging out at the top of the Eiffel Tower, going into Sacré Coeur and St. Chapel, walking the Latin Quarter, touring Montmartre at night, and finding little cafés for lunch each day. We laughed until we cried more than once, took an insane number of pictures (especially considering almost all were taken of the two of us, always in the same position, at arm's length. Our running joke was that we'd have all these pictures of us that looked the same except for the touristy thing behind us), and we enjoyed everything.

We managed to get to the Musée D'Orsay on Sunday when it was free entrance, we had an unbelievably short line when waiting to go up in the Eiffel Tower, and the day we went out to Verseille, which was supposed to be the rainiest of the weekend, ended up being the most sunny of the weekend. Everything seemed to go our way. Sunday night we headed to the train station feeling like we did all we had hoped to do and more!

Just under 2 weeks later, Kevin's parents came for a visit. They had spent a week in Provence, in the south of France, before coming north to Belgium, so they were over jet-lag and ready for 5 days with us. We had our normal busy weekend full of sports and they were able to see nearly all the boys' games. We played games and hung out between matches. Monday, when Kevin was at work and the boys were back at school, Shrimp, Tricia and I went to Antwerp for a few hour of touring. Tuesday we made sure to go to the market so they could stock up on Belgium chocolates to take back with them and Wednesday morning they took the train back to Brussels for their return flight. It was a very fun visit.

Next up my mom will be here with us for the holidays. We're very excited to have Grammy here, and to spend our first Christmas in Belgium. (We went back to Oregon for our first Christmas after moving here and were in Egypt last Christmas.) She'll be here for 2 weeks and after the boys are out of school and Kevin takes time off work we plan to go to some of the cities around here to see their Christmas lights, we'll go ice skating, and enjoy all the hoopla. On Christmas day we'll go to mass at a church in town where Jordan and Nathan's school chorus will be singing. Should sound beautiful in the stone church.

As of now, there aren't any visitors scheduled to come after the new year. Hopefully things will come together for others to visit, and we still have a few trips on our wish list to try to make before we move back next summer.

Thursday, October 15

Things are heating up

Cameron came home from school today and told us about the circus training all the kids in his year are participating in at school. Today the kids got to try out all the cool stuff - unicycles, juggling equipment, huge balls to walk on - so the circus coordinator could assess the kids' talents. They will work toward each kid showing 3 different "circus acts".

Cameron was juggling clubs while riding a unicycle and the coordinator told him he was good at juggling the clubs. So he asked Cameron if he'd like to try juggling flaming torches (while standing still). He said he could teach Cameron to do it. Cameron (of course) said "Oh yeah!" And when the coordinator asked 2 teachers if it would be alright if he did it, they said they thought he should be able to do it. So, we're supposed to pick up some juggling clubs so he can practice at home and then later the guy will teach him how to do it with lit torches. The shows are at the end of February. I'll keep you posted!

Thursday, September 10

Rome/Tuscany trip

Wow, our 2 weeks in Tuscany, beginning the last week of July, were about the best time we've ever spent! We had the time to see a lot but also took time to relax and play at our rented villa and in the pool. It was such a great balance!
(For pics of our trip: www.flickr.com/clarke-family. There were too many to choose from for me post them in the blog.)
We flew into Rome and spent 2 days exploring the city. It was 100+, but we managed to keep from melting with frequent water breaks and a water spray bottle - we kept spraying the boys and the little breeze cooled us off (for about 5 minutes!). We walked all over, from the Coliseum to the Pantheon and from the Trevi Fountain (where we threw coins in, of course - so we'll be going back) to the Spanish Steps at night. We went to the Vatican, saw the Castel St. Angelo and crossed the Bridge of Angels. It was a quick 2 days, but we weren't going to be in Rome at all originally, so it was a bonus.
We drove north out of Rome to our villa in San Giovani Valdarno, in the heart of Tuscany. After two days touring Rome in the sweltering heat, we gave ourselves the next 2 days off. We stayed at the villa, swam in the pool, played games, got groceries and hung out! We were really ready for touring again on the 3rd day and we spent it in Florence.
We managed to miss the train to Florence (the trains after commuter hours don't run as frequently, and we were not awake during commuter hours) so we drove up. We went first to the Basilica di Sant Maria del Fiore (with it's Duomo). We walked around the outside, checked out the huge golden (replica) doors of the baptistry and then climbed (463 steps) to the top of the cupola. The frescos on the inner wall of the duomo are pretty amazing, especially viewed from the walkway that passes in two places on the way to the top. The view from the top was a good way to see the layout of the city.
After climbing down, we walked through the markets in the surrounding streets and squares. After picking up a few things we found a pizzaria and had lunch and a rest. Afterward we headed to the Academy and home of Michaelangelo's David. The boys were amazed at the size of the statue. Jordan remembered learning that David holds the stones for his slingshot in one hand and he pointed them out on the statue. The boys also thought it was cool to see the unfinished statues, with the figures "emerging" from the stones they were cut from. There were other interesting sculptures and paintings, and a photo exhibition, too. The rest of our visit we wandered the streets a little. Because we planned to return another day we head back to our villa before too much longer. Everyone was in the pool about 10 minutes after we got back. The next day we had "off" from touring and swam and hung out at the villa.
Our next day of touring took us south, toward Orvieto. We had seen the city on it's rocky crag on our drive north from Rome. We drove up to the central square near the "zebra stripped" cathedral with beautifully intricate, colored mosaic patterns along the outside walls. We wandered into the heart of the town from there, looking at all the ceramic displays and charming alleyways. We wound our way to the old caves where pottery was once made. That explained why most stores sold ceramics (not leather goods like some other towns). From the caves we headed across the city toward St. Patrick's Well, which is, well, a well. It was made when the pope was somewhat in hiding in Orvieto and wanted a source of water in the case of a siege. So a very big well was carved out of the volcanic tuff, with 2 corkscrewing passagways big enough for a donkey and cart to pass through them. This was done so one could be descending and another ascending at the same time. It's amazingly precise and detailed, and simple and deep. We hiked to the bottom (which was very cool and refreshing) and back out again (to where it was 100+). From there we walked back into town, had granitas (think slushie) to cool off, bought a few ceramics and headed on to Civita di Bagnoregio.
Civita is a very small town (12 official residents) and sits on a sort of rocky peak. The surrounding area is lower, making Civita stand out like an ant hill. It's a quaint town with lots of ivy and plants softening the stonework of all the buildings. Very picturesque and unique!
The next day was another day of "rest" and swimming, and had the added bonus as being the "boys and dad cook dinner" night! They picked lots of tomatoes, some zucchini, onion and garlic from the garden at our villa, and with some pasta cheese and sausage from the store made a lasagna from scratch. It was fun to watch them figure it out with Kevin's help and all had a hand in putting it together. It turned out delicious, too! It was the best lasagna we'd ever eaten. They made another one during the 2nd week.
After our play day and yummy lasagna dinner, our next touring day started with Siena, in the heart of the Chianti region. As we crossed over the hills from where we were staying, it was amazing how suddenly we were in obvious wine country. Vineyards, wooden casks at driveway entrances, and old-looking wine estates. We first headed to the main square. It is sloped and shaped almost like an arena. There's a horse race each year around the square where riders wear medieval costumes styled like the old ones worn to represent the prominent families. At the lower end of the square is the city hall and tower. The tower in Siena is one of the highest we've climbed. And, it has parts that are barely wide enough to get though and low enough that Andrew had to duck to keep from hitting his head. But the climb was worth it for another great city view from the top of the tower.
Next we walked around Siena's "zebra church" and decided to go into it. The floors were covered with marble scenes, huge paintings were hung along the walls and there were statues and carvings everywhere. There was a "library" which had large books with large print and musical scores. We think these were medieval song books. They were precise and beautifully illustrated, with vivid colors. The walls and ceiling of the library were covered in frescos.
When we'd seen enough of Siena, we continued on our way to the small, walled city of Montereggioni. This was a defensive post for Siena to guard against armies from Florence. The city wall is still in tact, as well as many of the 14 towers along the wall. We were able to walk along a section of the wall and see what the soldiers saw as they scanned the horizon toward Florence watching for signs of an attack.
Last on our day's agenda was San Gimignano, another medival, walled city north of Montereggioni. San G. is larger and has many buildings with their towers intact. The story there is that the big families of the town started building towers bigger than their neighbors, to show their "larger" status. At one time there were 70 towers, about 14 of which are still standing. Because the "one-upsmanship" was getting out of control, the city put a limit on the height of new towers being built. (Of course, some ended up higher than the limit anyway.) San G had lots of shops and felt pretty "touristy". Kevin and the boys think they had the best pizza of the trip there from a shop on the main street. We drove back late in the day along the Si-Fi (road between Siena and Firenze/Florence). Late at night, below a full moon, we had an almost-midnight swim in the pool.
We headed back to Florence for another visit next. This time we parked along the south side of the Arno, not far from the Pont Vecchio. A class of painters was just setting up along the river, angling toward the bridge. There were about 8 women and a man who seemed to be the instructor. We crossed another bridge and went toward Piazza della signoria. This piazza is filled with sculptures and fountains. The great thing was that some of the statues were of references the boys know and that tied it in for them better than some other random "art" we've been seeing. One well-known character was Perseus with Medusa's head (which Cosimo put up as a warning of what would happen to anyone who thought about attacking his city). There were also pieces with Hercules, a centaur, and a fountain with Neptune surrounded by water nymphs (tribute to Florentine success at sea). An interesting series of statues of women depicts the women of Florence through time, each with a different style of dress and head piece.
From the piazza we headed down to the Pont Vecchio. It was very crowded and lined with jewelry shops. Along the open parts of the middle of the bridge, we saw (not for the first time) locks attached to the low wrought-iron fence surrounding a statue. Not just a few but large clusters of locks with couple's names written on them. One was even engraved with a couple's names and a recent date - like a wedding date. We got into a conversation with another visitor and a local and found out that couples put their names on the locks and lock them to the bridges or other places around the city and the legend is that if you do that the couple will always stayed "locked" together. There must have been thousands of them - every so often city workers will come and cut all the locks off, and then there's room for new ones to be added.
At the other end of the bridge we stopped to look at the paintings a woman was starting to put out for display. We liked 2 small ones of different styles but couldn't choose between them. So we bought both and took a pictures of the boys with the artist.
We continued from the end of the bridge toward the Baboli Gardens, but unfortunately it was closed (it was the first Monday of August and they close the first Monday of the month). So we steered back into the middle of town to find the gelato shop owned by the family who owned our villa, Gelato Caribe. Others told us that their shop is where the locals go for the best gelato. And it was the best we had in Italy (we had some nearly every day). It's a small shop but the consistency and flavor of their gelatos was delicious. Because we were renting the villa from them, we were given 2 containers of it each week with 2-3 flavors in each. We were very spoiled!
When we headed back to our car, we were happy to find that the painting class was still there after 4.5 hours! We took some time to look at each of the paintings. It was cool to see the difference between the styles of all 8 paintings! A few were very realistic and others were more impressionistic. Some seemed better than others. One woman had done her piece in pastels on black paper and it had a very unique look to it. Very intense, dense colors.
On the drive out of town we wound up to the top of a hill on the south side of the Arno. From there we had a fantastic view of the city skyline, the Pont Vecchio, Baboli gardens and the river. Very impressive.
Two days later we headed west out toward the Mediterranean Sea. We planned to be in Pisa in the evening for a trip to the top of the tower, but we wanted to start our day swimming at the beach. Our landlords recommended we go to Castiglioncello and we found the "beach" there. (The beaches in no way resemble what an Oregon would think of as a beach. It was small, crowded, and rocky. But it was also warm, light blue water, and in Italy, so we dealt with it.) We spent some time at along the rocky beach, swimming in the water. Then we moved to another area with some small cliffs where the boys spent hours jumping off. They loved being able to jump off/dive off/flip off the cliffs with some other kids. And it was a beautiful setting! We could see Alba (Napoleon's exile) and another small island off the coast, and the water was such a vivid lighter blue.
Later in the afternoon we showered off and packed up for the drive to Pisa. We were able to drive into the walled city area to park and walked over to the leaning tower. It was fun to see the boys reactions as they realized just how much the tower is leaning. We had time to walk around, watch people pretending to push the tower over for photo opps, check out the surrounding area and get some dinner. Around 7:30 we were in line, tickets in hand, to go up in the tower. Groups of 25 or so are allowed up in the tower for about 20 minutes. We all marched up the spiral steps, peeking out as we rose toward the top. It was fun to notice the the pitch as we wound up - on one side it felt like we were going almost flat and on the other side it would seem steeper. On the "sides" we pitched either left or right. The stairs are worn to one side or the other from everyone "leaning" their way up. The boys commented on how weird it was to be up so high, on something that was leaning, with only a small railing to keep us from falling. We had timed out tour to be at the top a little before sunset. It was a beautiful night and the city was glowing. Gorgeous view! Before long the guard was ushering everyone back to the stairs for the climb down. We could have stayed at the top for hours!
The next 2 days we enjoyed hanging at the villa and driving through some small nearby towns. In the evenings we drove up into the hills, one night using "the force" to find a way to the top of the hills near our villa. We were able to get to a tiny town, way up high, where there seemed to be a youth event, a party or dance in a central building. There were 5 or 6 old men sitting on benches along the side of a small square, talking and watching the night unfold. As we started back down the hill we had a wide view of the valley, with light twinkling here and there in the dark. We stopped at Loro Ciufeena, a small town perched on the steeply cut edge of a stream/river. There were a couple of stone bridges crossing over to the main part of the town and a gelato store was at the foot of the bridge. The owner had lived in England for years and then came back to Loro Ciufeena, where she and he husband grew up, and now had the gelato store and 2 bars in the town. There was an old mill a little further down the way, but it was too dark to see much detail on it. The town had good out-of-the way vibe and we went back the next night, too.
On our last day in Italy we drove back south toward the airport in Rome. We made one stop on the way to see the city of Arezzo. We started at the basilica of Francesca, where Piero della Francesca painted a cycle of frescos depicting the Legend of the True Cross. The frescos are impressive and full of symbolism. All the walls of the basilica were covered in frescos, but unfortunately not all are in good condition, with huge portions having fallen away over time. We walked throughout the city, looking out from the walled gardens at the high end of town, past the cathedral and through a couple of squares. We didn't have a long time, and needed to continue on to Rome, where we caught our flight back to Belgium.
Our two weeks in Italy were great. It was such a good pace, to have the play days in between the touring. And although it was extremely hot (hovering around 100 most of the time) the heat was surprisingly bearable. Truly a unique experience.

Tuesday, September 8

A sunny September day

I'm feeling like such the "hip" European chick today. It's one of those beautiful September days - blue skies, a few whispy clouds, cool breeze. I slung my green suede Prada knock-off "mail bag" over my shoulder, hopped on my bike and spent an hour and a half biking my errands around Marke (our little town) and into Kortrijk (the bigger city).

I went to our local post office to mail some insurance doc.s, stopped by the bank for some rolls of euro coins, dropped Andrew's Baptism certificate to the church office (from his confirmation last spring) and popped into the bike shop. I've been having trouble with one (crank shaft?) coming loose and it needed replacing. The guy was able to do it while I waited. (He's seen a lot of business from us in the last 2 years, nice guy.) Then I rode along the back way into Kortrijk. I headed to the library first. I had about a dozen books I've read in the last year that I liked but won't read again so they were donated to the library. They have a pretty sizable English section (a lot of books from English writers, but others, too) and I've been very glad for it! While there I put in a request for the english copy of The Little Prince from the library in Gent. We have it in French, by I'm too rusty to read/translate it for the boys, so the English one will help. From there I continued further into town and found some socks for Andrew and a belt for me in one of the shopping districts. I peeked in a couple of clothes shops, but I'm not ready for the warm fall fashions on their racks. Next I headed for the grocery store to pick up the soap I forgot in my big Monday shopping trip yesterday, and on the long ride back out to Marke I picked up a baguette at a small bakery and added it to my basket. I felt pretty Euro, with my baguette sticking out of the basket on the front of my bike.

Being the beautiful day it was, I passed many other bikers enjoying the day. Lots of smiles and head nods on a day like today. I could do a morning like that every day! Loved it!

Wednesday, September 2

Hoarfrost (Jan '09)

Last winter we didn't have as much snow as in the NW, but we did have a long, cold winter. Weeks of freezing temperatures, clear blue skies and frozen ponds. There was a week or two when we had thick hoarfrost most mornings. (Marine are coming in off the North Sea?) The frozen "spikes" were sooo long. I went out to get some photos. I kept meaning to put a couple in the blog, but better now than never?